In the vibrant halls of Essex College, where personal growth and interpersonal relationships take center stage, "The Sex Lives of College Girls" Season 3, Episode 3, titled "Four to a Suite," delves into the complexities of college life with the introduction of a new roommate and the challenges that come with it. This episode marks a significant shift as the girls navigate life without Leighton, portrayed by Renee Rapp, adding a new layer to their dynamic.
The episode kicks off with the arrival of Kacey, a transfer student who has been with her boyfriend since the seventh grade, a fact that doesn't sit well with Bela, who, like many, is surprised by such a long-lasting middle school romance. Kacey's presence is immediately felt as she flaunts her relationship and her promise ring, a symbol that seems to have come back in style. Her condescending attitude towards the trio is palpable, and it doesn't take long for tensions to rise. Kacey's boyfriend, Calvin, becomes a point of contention when Kimberly spots him making out with someone else at an Omega party, leading to a dramatic confrontation that sees Kacey rushing to the scene, pimple patches and all, to confront the infidelity.
The drama escalates as Kacey's world crumbles around her, with the girls caught in the middle. Despite initial reservations, they decide to support Kacey, leading to a moment of solidarity that hints at the possibility of a new friendship forming. The broken promise ring symbolizes not just the end of Kacey's relationship but also the beginning of a new chapter in her life at Essex.
Meanwhile, Taylor's brief encounter with alcohol counseling is both humorous and telling of her attitude towards her drinking problem. Her dismissive behavior is juxtaposed with Bela's awkward attempts at flirting with Arvind, the FAF from the previous episode. Bela's distaste for "nice guys" is challenged when Arvind performs a dramatic Heimlich maneuver, sparking an unexpected attraction. However, the revelation that he has a girlfriend adds a twist to the storyline, leaving Bela undeterred and the audience intrigued.
Kimberly's journey takes a turn as she navigates her relationship with Eli, a bisexual man whose past relationships complicate their dynamic. Her attempt to transform into a "sex freak" ends in embarrassment, with a sex toy mishap that leaves her mortified. This plotline explores the complexities of sexual identity and the pressures of living up to expectations.
Whitney's storyline is a mix of concern and confusion. Her struggle to balance soccer, academics, and personal life is relatable, but her interactions with her professor and her lack of knowledge about historical figures feel out of place. The potential for her to embrace a more militant Black identity is hinted at but not fully realized, leaving the audience wanting more depth and development in this aspect of her character.
"Four to a Suite" is a rollercoaster of emotions, highlighting the challenges and growth that come with new relationships and changes. The episode masterfully weaves together the personal struggles of each character, from Kacey's heartbreak to Bela's flirtatious misadventures, Kimberly's sexual exploration, and Whitney's identity crisis. It's a testament to the show's ability to tackle complex themes with humor and heart, leaving viewers eager for more.